Who the Hell AM I? 8 Ways to Find your Authentic Self One of the goals of life is to determine how to become the best version of ourselves, but what does that mean?  Well, here are some ways that we can find our true selves. Make a list of your Core Values and stand by them. Ex. Loyalty, honesty, trustworthy, diligence.  Here is a list of suggestions https://corevalueslist.com/  Standing by these values, even when it is difficult is how we demonstrate to ourselves integrity.